Dealing with a Lover That Has Straying Eyes

Does He Likes To Check Out Other Women?
Does He Likes To Check Out Other Women?
The world is full of beauty and beautiful people, and sometimes you wish it wasn’t so, because your partner apparently cannot keep his or her eyes to themselves. You try your best not to overreact, but sometimes it’s just so hard to keep a cool head when you catch your lover eyeing someone with a particularly low cut top or someone’s toned ass in tight-fitting jeans. Some of you may have lovers who are not even subtle in their appreciation of other people’s bodies, and that certainly causes your blood to start boiling. We have some tips to help you deal with a lover whose eyes love to stray.

See It for What It Is

The most important thing you must remember that your partner is just looking. He’s not doing anything else other than looking, and at the end of the day, he still comes back to you. He’s not committing adultery or anything like that, Go Here to read the signs your partner is cheating. so you should keep a cool head. When you feel highly irritated at your lover’s behavior, you should try and recall the times where you have checked out someone else in front of them. Most likely you have done the same before, and guess what? You haven’t cheated on your partner. So give your partner some credit when he or she checks someone out, the attraction is fleeting and physical, and it will not be as strong as the emotional connection you have with your partner. They are not going to sweep some random stranger off their feet and run away together. If they do, you are probably better off without them to begin with.

Jealousy and Insecurity Is Highly Unattractive

You Are Feeling Left Out
You Are Feeling Left Out
Another thing to note is that jealousy is highly unattractive to many people, (Take The Quiz – Are you a jealous person?) even if you do have a valid excuse to be jealous. Your partner may not see the reason why you are jealous, as to them, they are just harmlessly looking. To them, there is nothing wrong with window shopping after all. But if you get upset and bitter, it will show in your face and behavior, and that makes you even more unattractive to your partner, or to other people. Just remember, your partner still chooses you, no matter how many attractive bodies he eyes in the club, so you clearly have something going on for you. Hold your head up high and walk with confidence. Confidence is highly sexy and attractive, and it will be a good way to bring his eyes back to you, which is where they should have been all along.

Talk about It Seriously

Tackle The Issue As A Couple
Tackle The Issue As A Couple
A good relationship doesn’t function without communication. If you really cannot stand the thought of your partner mentally undressing other good-looking people on the street, please talk to them about it. Tell them how it makes you feel that you are unworthy to be seen with them, or that it makes you feel inferior or unwanted. Chances are your partner may not have even noticed how his actions make you feel. Some people are quite dense and need clear signs to help them point out their mistakes. As long as you make it clear to him that this behavior upsets you, chances are he will do it less, or do it more discreetly to ensure that you’re not angry.
Of course, the both of you can also talk about other things, like your good physical attributes. Ask your partner what physical traits he finds attractive when it comes to you. This will help boost you self-confidence, as well as rekindle that spark of physical attraction between both of you, reminding him that you are the person is eyes should be on.