When you are out there in the world trying to find a girl who would be interested in going home with you, it can be really difficult to tell whether she is actually interested in you or she just wants you to go away and leave her alone. If she wants nothing to do with you, then no matter how long you spend trying to pick her up, you will never be able to gain her affections, which will mean that you have just wasted a ton of time that you could have been spending trying to impress some other girl. So how exactly can you tell if a girl is not interested in picking up what you are throwing down? Well, there are some pretty simple ways to figure it out, all you have to do is pay attention to the body language she is giving you.
Any girl who is actually interested in you is going to be happy to have a conversation with you. So if you find yourself dealing with a girl who is only offering you responses of one or two words and her tone seems a little short, then you are likely barking up the wrong tree entirely. Clipped responses from a girl means that she does not want to take the time to respond to you and has no interest in even having a conversation with you that is longer than a few words. Rather than take the time to try and get her to open up, you should just move on and leave her be.
Avoiding Eye Contact
It is pretty normal for anyone who is interested in a conversation to maintain eye contact as much as they can. Eye contact is a great indicator of interest from literally anyone, no matter their gender. As such, when you are dealing with a girl who does not seem to want to look you in the face, you are likely dealing with a girl who does not want to have a conversation with you. While avoiding eye contact can be signs of plenty of other things too, it is usually best to assume that a girl who does not want to make eye contact with you does not want to waste any time on you either.
Putting On Music
A really easy way to tell that a girl is just not interested is if she suddenly wants to pay attention to the sound of something other than your voice. For example, if she picks up the phone or puts in earbuds to listen to some music, that is you cue to just give it up and move on to someone else, because she wants nothing to do with you anymore. The same can be said for if she suddenly needs to talk to someone else or wants to go pay attention to a song at the bar. That just means that she is done with your conversation and you should be too.
Reading a Book
Any girl who is reading a book has no interest in striking up a conversation with anyone, not even if you are going to talk to her about the book that she is reading. So if you are trying to make advances on a girl who is very invested in the book that she is reading, you are absolutely wasting your time. She wants nothing to do with you or the conversation you are trying to strike up and she would much rather keep reading her book than try and come up with responses to whatever it is that you are asking her. Read the signs and let her read her book.
The basic gist comes down to this: if you are dealing with a girl who shows no signs of wanting to initiate any part of the conversation herself, you are dealing with a girl who is just not interested in you. Save yourself the time and the trouble and move on to a girl who is actually going to want to share a conversation with you instead of just sit back and be talked at while she tries to distract herself with something else.