Just because you’re having a good time doesn’t mean that your boyfriend is actually good in bed. (Are you Good In Bed? Take The Quiz) When you’re really hungry, a peanut butter sandwich is going to taste good, but that doesn’t mean it really is better than a five course meal. Here are 6 signs that your boyfriend is floundering around down there and you’re lucky you’ve been having fun.
1. He Gets Right to Penetration
Penetration is great, but there’s a lot more to sex than just sticking it in. You have to get right down to the nitty gritty about things like that, and really find out what’s the best for you and your desires. If you don’t have enough foreplay you’re going to be dry and tight, when you should be wet and flexible. That’s the way for you to get pleasure, and not just him. He has to be able to bring the arousal before getting down to business.
2. He Doesn’t Want to Look at Your Vagina
A man who doesn’t feel like he needs to see what’s going on down there is a man who doesn’t care if he ever finds your clit. Sure, there’s a lot to be said for working things out by feel, but there’s even more to be said for actually taking a look. Why doesn’t he want to look at something he can touch? Getting a look can tell him a lot about how aroused you are, what your vaginal lips are like, and even more.
3. He Thinks Vaginas Look or Smell Gross
A lot of ladies don’t think that this is a problem because they assume that vaginas are gross, or they look gross, or they taste gross. Here’s the truth: it smells like a vagina. It tastes like a vagina. If he thinks that it should smell like a garden or taste like a slice of fruit then he’s the one with unrealistic expectations. If he can’t accept what vaginas are then there’s a good chance that he’s not giving them the time or attention that they deserve. If you keep an average bathing schedule than he’s the one who needs to change his tune. After all, when was the last time he refused to let you give him a blowjob because he didn’t feel fresh enough?
4. He Can Never Tell If You’re Finished
It’s not that hard to tell when a woman finishes if you’re inside her. You can fake it all you want, but you’ll never able to make your vaginal walls spasm the same way that a good orgasm can. You’re not going to be able to do that. If you don’t fake it anyway, he has no reason not to know when you’re not all the way there. If he gives up and tells you it’s because he thought you were done, tell him to check with you next time. It will take as long as it takes.
5. He Boasts about All the Things Women Do for Him
It’s one thing for your boyfriend to have been with other women. That’s fine. The problem comes when all he does is brag about everything other women did for him; whether he had them on their backs, or doggy style, or how much they loved it when he pulled their hair while they were going down on him. He should be boasting about the things he’s done for women; how he gave them back to back orgasms or made them squirt. If he doesn’t have stories like that it’s because he hasn’t done it.
6. He Tries to Make It like a Porno
Sex in a porno can be arousing to watch, but it’s not actually about making the woman feel good. If he’s all for modeling it after porn he only cares about his own pleasure.